Who do you choose?

How many of you have been in a relationship where no matter what you loved the man. You know- through thick and thin - you still love the man. Now you don't get here overnight. It takes some time to get to this point and place in love. You see when you are here, you've been with the man over a period of at least three years. The relationship was great at the beginning. You know - you spent weekends together, weeknights he would come by and maybe stay over once or twice a week. The two of you would plan your social functions with the other one in mind. Then gradually your time together slips a away. Just a little you think, then the time gap widens. You begin to notice and try to talk about it, but it is brushed off. Now all of this time you are still loving the man - cookie and all. The gap continues to widen, then you begin to suspect something and if you're one of the lucky ones, you will find out that he has been seeing someone else. As hurtful as this can be, you ask him why. You ask him not to destroy what you all have. You ask him to make a decision - to chose -hoping that he will chose you. Finally the eventful decision is made and you're left out - no answer given. He goes on - but you're still in love with him. Hurt and confused - you still love the man. How could he - but you still love the man. Why did he - but you still love the man. If only he would call - you still love the man.

Have any of you ladies out there been there? What should a woman do in this situation? Some would say that she should face the facts and move on. Others say that there is no decision to make - just get over it. To all of the women who may be in this situation or something similar - if you love someone sometimes you have to free it (him) up, let it (hm) go, so it (he) can find its (his) own love. If it (he) comes back to you, you have just found your jewel. If it (he) doesn't come back, then it was not meant to be.