Tough Decision - Day 6

What happened to you on day 6? Did you keep your word and not call him or her? And if he or she called, did you answer the phone? By now you should be really mellowing out about your tough decision. When you hear love songs you will, again, think of those times you shared. You will recall so vividly some of your firsts. You may begin to really appreciated the good times that you had and start to find some reasonable understanding of what happened. You are in a sense coming to terms with what happened and preparing yourself to move on.

If you are still completely distraught over what happened, you really need to allow yourself to cry- to sob, to moan, and finally to pray and ask for help. Sometimes you will need a supernatural power to help you cope with your loss. It's OK - just go on and get it over with or at least started. If it takes more than a day, go for two or more days. When you are done with the sops and tears, cheer up and continue with your calendar counter of how many days you have been able to sustain from having contact with him or her.

Remember, it took time to get into the relationship, or at least it should have, and to fall in love, so it's going to take some time to move on. Just be careful wasting a lot of time in misery when you can be entering a new horizon of blissfulness.