TLC in 2009!

With 2009 just around the corner - are you ready for some TLC? OK ladies and gents, we have almost completed 2008. Lessons learned, heartaches healed, at least for some of us, is it time to thrust ourselves into the arms of a loving man or woman? You know that kind of man or woman that has been around all along while you were hurt, bruised, ignored and not cared for.

For the ladies -You know that man that held you close and patted you gently on your back as you cried over your break up. The one that knows how to cheer you up and would come over with your favorite ice cream. The man that will look you straight in your eyes, hold your face so ever tender and lay a soft kiss on your forehead, each of your cheeks, and your nose and just brush his mouth on yours.

For the gents - that woman that told you that you deserve better when you found out that your lady was kicking with another man. The woman who grabbed your hand, raised it to her mouth and place a warm kiss on it before she left you and said, "I'll call you in the morning to check on you." The woman who inspires you, laughs with you and believes in you. The woman who will look into your eyes and marvel at your masculinity and passion.

So I ask the question again, in 2009 - Are you ready for some loving so ever tender?

Who cares what the people might say - I say go for it - it is your time!

The Comfort of a Woman

Why do so many of us women find ourselves again at the end of the year without a man? All year long, you have waited, wanted and needed, but nothing seem to materialize beyond the casual date, movies, a couple of dinners and phone calls. Even though we may not be ready for the alter, we surely want to feel like he is. Now some of you may be thinking, well this is double standards - not really. You see women want the man to be aggressive. Tell us that you are ready for marriage and let us think it over. Give us plenty attention throughout the year and on those special days, surprise the "H" out of us. Who can say no to such a treat?

Here comes the double talk------

So I ask the question again, why do so many of us women find ourselves again at the end of the year without a man? Is it because we haven't been true to our feelings? Could it be that haven't closed those other love chapters? In order for a man to becomes yours, he needs to know that you are his. Don't be vague about what you want. Women, if you want the comfort of a man, then you have to give him the comfort of a woman.

What's In It For Me?

OK - so you been around awhile. You and he have spent countless hours together. You talk on the phone several times a day. You've met his folks and some of his friends. He has meet your family and your close friends. But for some reason, something is missing or should I say - Not Happening! What's in it for me? You've asked yourself many times over. Is it that he is not your type and just a fill in? Is it that he doesn't push all of your buttons? Or could it be that you are not ready for the steady? Is it that you are looking for something else or you're not looking at all? Whatever it is be darn sure you know before you go. You don't want to make the move too quickly and later realize that HE WAS FOR YOU.