Baby girl the hurt will eventually go away

To all the ladies, women, sistas, divas and girls who are broken hearted today, yesterday and now. I know it is hard to believe what he did. I know that it is hard to understand how could someone who say that he love you do what he did. Whether it is sleeping with another woman; making a baby with another woman, living with another woman, spending time with the other and none with you, lying to you over and over again, making decisions to help the other woman 'cause they need help and he has a big heart (BS), having dated another woman and you at the same time. having found him in the bed with another woman once, twice or whatever number and the list I know can go on. I'm here to tell you and well as myself that when a person loves you, their actions will line up with their words. "Love without action is Dead" according to the Bible. We women must understand that a man's action will line up with his words. If He Loves You, then he would not have another woman, be caught sleeping with her, would not make babies, etc. Many times we try to fit him into our lives -knowing that he does not meet the description of "If He Love You". If he really cared - you wouldn't have doubt.

Ladies, including me, we got to be smarter than this. We got to inspect what we expect before we have sex with the man, before we give him the keys to our hearts, before we open up the door and jump right in, before we give him our precious gems, before we call him my man. He is not your man until he has proven the test of "If You Love Me" with the right actions that go along with I Love You. Hurt hearts, broken hearts, or hearts that are going through a healing, let us pray for each other and ask God to see us through this season. Let us become better inspectors of love and let us be diligent in holding on to our "precious gems" until it is time to truly share ourselves with the man who really do love us.