Tough Decision - Day 5

It has not been 4 days since your break up. Remember your decision to walk away to tell you lover to take a hike should have been based on a or some solid factor(s). Factors like he or she has been sleeping around with other people, which is by the way very risky behavior; or something like you found out that they have been dating someone else during your relationship as well; or he or she isn't ready to make a serious commitment - get the picture. The reason I mentioned these examples is for you not to lose your focus when the urge to make up with him or her comes.

(For the post today is Wednesday) The weekend is nearing and you may be dreading being alone and the urge to re-unite with him or her could be very strong. When and if this urge hits you, remain calm, remember how far you have come, remember why you left the person in the first place, and try to keep yourself busy this weekend. Day 4 is preparation for the weekend. Call your friends to see what is going on this weekend. And if you have abandoned your friends while you were in the relationship, like some people do, call your family, cousins, ask you co-workers - What's happening for the weekend?. Try to find something to do and maybe attend a social function where you will meet some new people. Also on day 4 - you may get a phone call - hold to your guns and don't answer the phone or allow contact. Because afterwards, you will be back where you started and starting all over is really hard to do. So don't go for it - Don't allow it to happen if you are really serious about keeping your Tough Decision in tact.