Tough Decision - Day 2

OK - its has been 2 days since you made that touch decision to leave his "A" alone. So how do you feel? I know at night you are still contemplating if you made the right decision. I know you have picked up the phone at least once and softly put the phone on the base. It's OK girl, this is normal behavior when you are going through a break-up. When you are still and quite, your mind will replay the dialogues the two of you exchanged during the break-up. You will again try to reason why, try to find an understandable reason why he didn't choose you. You will compare yourself with the other woman in an attempt to pinpoint why. Again, girl, it's OK.

During the next few days keep yourself busy. Hang out with the girls, do something that you really have a passion about. Call a friend. Pray. Write down your thoughts if you have too. But whatever you do, don't call him or try to see him. If you do this, it will only set you back in your "moving on" process. Remember to Stop- Drop and Roll to another adventure as soon as you can. My mother use to tell me, "Men are like buses, another one is always on the way!"

PS. Look for Tough Decision - Day 3 on September 10, 2007