Ain't Happening

You’ve known him for 6 months now. Sure he is nice, but something is just not clicking. Could it be that you’re not over your last lover? Is it that you’re just not attracted romantically? From the beginning, it felt good. You would snuggle up next to him on the sofa and watch movies together. You would embrace slow intimate kisses. He would touch your body and at times sensations would ripple through your mind and body. Now you don’t want to kiss. You only give him that friendly church hug. For some reason, your mind has not settled on him. As the relationship continues you begin to notice that in many areas you and he have some big differences. Well my friend if this is you, you may need to find a New Adventure. When things aren’t meshing within 6 months, they probably will not mesh at all. Those differences are going to get bigger. Plus, you need to really evaluate yourself and your feelings to determine why you aren’t there yet!

Both of you deserve to have complete relationships - so don’t be afraid to move on. Sure you may be alone for a while or even for a period of time that you don’t want to be alone. But eventually you will embark upon a New Adventure - just don’t make the mistake of staying in one place too long before you realize that it AIN’T HAPPENING!

Should You Go?

Should you go back to a man that has cheated on you? Should you go back to a man that says that he loves you, didn't mean to hurt you, and just want to show you that he can be the man for you? He cheated. He lied. He wasn't there. Should you go back? Before you make a decision to go back, let's explore the what ifs. What if the shoe was on the other foot, would he take you back? What if you still love him, but don't trust him? What if he just want to spend some time with you cause he in between? What if he isn't sure of what he wants and just want to something to keep him steady, only for a moment? What if he or she hasn't matured to the point to stick with it no matter what? What if he or she still have roaming eyes a wild spirit? What is you have meet someone else who adores your, pushes all the right buttons, and whom you have begun to be very fond of or love?
Well, after you have answered these questions - I think the answer will be crystal clear. Sure the familiar is always nice and one would like to think that he or she has changed, but why risk what you have conquered with someone who didn't give a "damn" earlier. I say, Don't go back. You've moved on to a new adventure. Chalk it up and keep on erasing.

Say That

You say that you still love me -how do I know - you still live with another woman. You say that you don't love her, as a matter of fact, you told her that she got to go - yet another month and she is still there. You say that you want to spend some time with me, not just bump n grind time, but some real time. How can I spend time with you and when it's over - you're going to sleep in the bed with another woman? If any one can relate to this type of talk - let me hear from you. What's wrong with this type of thinking and this type of talk? Why don't people just keep it real - life is about choices and he or she did not chose you. Sure we cried, got mad, wanted to fight and cried some more, but we got over it. So why do they still call us with all of this BS? Is it because we entertain it? Is it because we don't have a crisp answer? For whatever reason, I say say this to SAY THAT - "Love is more than a notion and I don't have a portion to give to you- so keep it moving" and hang up the phone or slam the door in his/her face.

Remember

It's time for love- your mind is ready, your body is aching, but he can't be found. You call him on his cell, you try his home - he can't be found. You go home and look at yourself in the mirror - you sit on the bed and begin to visualize his masculine hard and soft body next to yours; you fall back on you bed and close your eyes - you can feel his breath and his sweet strength on top of you - you begin to smile inside only to find that he can't be found. You open your eyes and stare at the ceiling and wonder what, why and where - What is he doing? Why isn't he with you? And where can he be? Your mind stops in mid stream and then you remember how come you are alone - Remember he couldn't be found - remember he was never there - and remember he didn't even know you - he didn't know the "real" you - when you would make love, it was his love and not yours and his. When you would make love, it was his release and your moan to be released. Remember!