Don't Lose Faith In Love

A lot of my blogs have been about hurt and pain. Being hurt by someone whom you love is hard and sometimes we build a fortress around us and don't want to love again. I had my first heart break when I was a junior in college. And believe me, I am glad it happened then and not now. I was depressed, lost interest in a lot of things and just didn't feel good for weeks. This is normal behavior, just don't stay there.

Love is a good thing. Being love and loving is a good thing. Don't lose faith in love - no matter what happens - life goes on and so should love. The key is to learn from each love experience. Take those lessons learned and apply them. Take those lessons that should not have been learned and burn them. Don't make your new love suffer from past loves. If you have read my blogs you might remember that I say often, inspect what you expect. So before you go and give up too much of yourself and those "precious gems of love" do you homework, do your research, probe and ask the questions and listen for the right answers. Make note of behavior and patterns. Remember you cannot change people and people will do what they what damn please. Don't lose faith in love - he - she has too much to offer.