STALEMATE

When you first meet someone, there is so much excitement and anticipation. Now I am talking about someone that you are really interested in. Anyway, you call your girls and tell them all about him. He has good conversation, good looking, pays you a lot of attention and he calls every night. After a couple of weeks have gone by, you're still in the newness of the relationship. But then you begin to realize that the two of are not that compatible. The conversation is somewhat redundant and damn right boring. You say to yourself, he is a good man. He is attentive, has picked up the tab for all of your dinners, but your conversation is stale. What do you do? Do you keep seeing the man knowing that you are bored as hell? Or do you STOP DROP AND ROLL to a new adventure?

If you are bored with him now, it will intensify later. You will be starved for mind stimulation - good conversation, talk, dialogue....so let the man go for good cause and by all means - STOP SEEING HIM, DROP HIS NUMBER TO THE BACK LIST ON YOUR CELL AND DO, I MEAN DO ROLL ON TO ANOTHER ADVENTURE.

And what ever you do, don't give up the cookies, cause if you do, then you may be stuck with your STALEMATE!

Should You Take Him Back?

It is truly amazing how time heals broken hearts, crushed dreams and the dreadful want to hate, (but of course you don't, at least I hope you don't). You've finally gotten yourself together. He no longer invades your days, your dreams or your thoughts. The memory of him is just that - a memory. Then on a late night, you get this knock on your door or a call on your cell, IT IS HE - THE MEMORY - wanting to talk, wanting to come by, wanting to pick up what HE DROPPED! You listen to his story. You learned that the "other woman" left him. You hear that he was a fool for letting you go. You are urged to give him another chance. And of course, you hear that he still loves you. SHOULD YOU TAKE HIM BACK? SHOULD YOU GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE? CAN YOU EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN? These questions run through your mind over and over again. You play out the what ifs. You are desperately trying to make the best decision.


THE ANSWER - WHY SHOULD YOU? I know you can't answer a question with a question. But in this situation, you better!

BE MINE!

I was traveling down memory lane and stop by the "Be Mine" road. I can recall all of my "boyfriends" when I was a teenager, in college and as a young adult. Now all doesn't mean that I had too many, but I did have my share (smile). I remember those Valentine days and nights. How I was so eager to see him. How I desparately wanted to be with him on the "V" Day.
If for reason we did not see each other that day, it was over! Do you feel me? Be Mine - how sweet is was back then.

Now as a mature woman, why isn't the "V" Day not that important? Is it that I'm not in love? Is it because I've had my share of candy, cards, flowers, jewelry or dinner? Is it because he hasn't made that type of impression upon me or I haven't impressed him? Where in the "H" is romance these days?

Be Mine - Be Mine - Be Mine - What a wonderful way to say I love you - just Be MINE!

So the question is, who will you BE MINE to on February 14th?