What's the Deal?

Have you taken that plunge in your mate? You’ve been dating seeing each other for 6 months now. He feels good. He looks good. He has been good to you. He calls you at least three times a day. You talk before you go to bed. He is the first person you talk to when you get to work. Through out the day, the two of you share little drop in calls to just say HI. He adores your children (if you have some). You’ve met his family and they have embraced you. You’ve met most of his friends and they too embrace you. You have gone to many dinners, movies and other places together. Are you guys a couple yet? Are you ready for the plunge? He holds you close, raises your hand and kisses it ever so tender. He loves to curl up next to you and just rub his fingers through your hair. Many times he has begun to discuss the permanent language - but you are standoffish. You are disengaged. At times you seem to like what he is putting down, then you go off and wonder - nall this can’t be. I say go with the flow. I say "WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL?

All of this GOODNESS is staring you in the face - What are you going to do? Either you do or you don’t want this treasure. If you don’t want this treasure, then stop taking the gems. But if you do want this treasure, get in the chest and let the diamonds sparkle. You know women are always looking for a new diamond - be careful, don’t let them find yours!