Women, He's In, Now What?

The other day my post titled, "Men If You Want In, Get In" was about men who want to be at the table, in the bed and first on the list, but not fully engaged in their women's lives. I told men to get with the program and GET IN. Well today, this is for the ladies.

Some of you may say, "well, if I lay down with him, then I don't have to do anything else". Well I tend to disagree. Sex is only apart of a relationship and you and I both know that men don't have a problem when it comes to going to the "cookie jar" regardless to whose house it is in. So you see, no matter what you think you got or how good you think your "stuff" is, other women, have the same cookies that your man can get. Now that I have your attention, let me drop a few cookie-dough nuggets at you.

1 - You do have to nurture the man. Yes nurture! Talk to him sweet, touch and rub on him often. Cuddle up just because. Let him put his head in your lap and just stroke his forehead and face. I think I've said enough here.

2 - Be excited to see your man. Show some enthusiasm. Smile and enjoy him. At least you have a man - many of us don't. Also, show some love, ladies!

3 - Cultivate the relationship. Just like you prune and weed a flower garden, you need to tend to your relationship. For example, let's say that you go over and see some dishes in the sink, wash them or put them in the dishwasher. When you are out shopping and you see his favorite cookies, (real cookies) buy him a bag, and don't expect for him to give you your money back. Money issues is the number one cause for divorce, so don't sweat money woes, unless you really have to.

4 - Ladies, hopefully you get the picture. If you want the man in, then you must attract him to want to come in and once he is in, then do you damnest to maintain and keep him in. Women it is now your turn!