Friday, March 14, 2008

Ain't Happening

You’ve known him for 6 months now. Sure he is nice, but something is just not clicking. Could it be that you’re not over your last lover? Is it that you’re just not attracted romantically? From the beginning, it felt good. You would snuggle up next to him on the sofa and watch movies together. You would embrace slow intimate kisses. He would touch your body and at times sensations would ripple through your mind and body. Now you don’t want to kiss. You only give him that friendly church hug. For some reason, your mind has not settled on him. As the relationship continues you begin to notice that in many areas you and he have some big differences. Well my friend if this is you, you may need to find a New Adventure. When things aren’t meshing within 6 months, they probably will not mesh at all. Those differences are going to get bigger. Plus, you need to really evaluate yourself and your feelings to determine why you aren’t there yet!

Both of you deserve to have complete relationships - so don’t be afraid to move on. Sure you may be alone for a while or even for a period of time that you don’t want to be alone. But eventually you will embark upon a New Adventure - just don’t make the mistake of staying in one place too long before you realize that it AIN’T HAPPENING!

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