Thursday, April 3, 2008

Meet Him In the Dark Again!

OK, so you have decided to give up some honey. Should it be a quickie? Should it be at your place or his? Do you need to plan an intimate evening, you know, dinner, candlelight, a fine wine, some soft music? But what happens when you decide to give up the "cookie" and to your disappointment, it’s not what it was cranked up to be? Then what? Have you thought about this? How will you handle the disappointment? Will you let him go back to the "cookie jar" again? Were the two of you kinda premature and not really ready for the feat? Do you talk about it? Do you talk again ever? Do you call it quits and move on?

Sure, the chemistry was there. Of course you were hot and steamy. But what happened? Maybe the anticipation was bigger than the bite. Maybe the two of you were too hyped to connect. Maybe your mind was on someone else. There are could be many reasons why it didn’t happened. But before you throw away what still could be the best thing for you, talk about it. Talk openly and freely about what happened or didn’t. Discuss how the two of you can make it better for each other. If need be, explore your bodies with the lights on and show your man how to make your toes curl, then turn off the lights and meet him in the dark again!

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