Slow Down & Sped Up

How can a woman slow down her man? Sure he is touching you in all of the right places. Your eyes are closed, your mind relaxed or fantasizing, your body is responding, but you are not quite there yet. You know - you want the excitement to build. You want the anticipation to climb. Your heart and pulse rates increase. You begin to breath a little different. You' re tingly all over, but not quite there yet. How do you slow him down? He wants in, but you want more "take me to the edge" action. He wants in - you give in, and before you know it, it's over.

How can you slow your man down? Well for starters, take the lead. Be the aggressor and not the victim of his aggression. You control the play, the timing and the positioning. And let in, when you are ready. Tease your man, talk to your man, play with your man and when he thinks it's time, tease him some more. He'll join in and follow your lead. When you are ready, guide him to the cookie jar, if he hasn't open the lid already. But if he has, let him set the sped and all you have to do is to keep up.