Tend 2 Your Man, Girl!

Having been divorced, by choice, for 10 years, I now know the mistakes that I made. Women we have a powerful arsenal and we need to know how, when and how often to use it. Many times we are so caught up in the hustle of wifey/mommy issues, we tend to let the "bad girl" go. Just like the saying goes, " we got to keep doing what we did to get him to keep him". I remember on sunny beautiful days, my man and I would be closed up in his place or mine for hours, and we were not watching TV! I couldn't wait to see him and at times, I had trouble going to sleep without him.

The marriage came and shortly after that, the first baby. All of a sudden, I was short on time and talent, by the way, a talent that would bring two additional children into our lives. Now I was really stressed for time and did not give a damn about the talent. For those of you are clueless about the talent - I'm talking about my ability to please the man in the bed; the ability and yeah, the agility to go at it and at it. So no action really led to no action - divorced and much wiser now, I now know ladies that you got to Tend 2 Your Man. Let the dishes go. Forsake the laundry. Who cares if the kitchen floor needs a little mopping, just walk over the little dirt, open up the fridge and get the whip cream.