Is He Right For Me?

How many times have we agonized in bed, while driving, at the salon, or just talking with our girls, is he right for me? We rehearse in our minds the what ifs. We talk to ourselves, and sometimes out loud, why, why not and how come. We replay the events to validate he's right for me. We try to find the missing elements to connect to -he is right for me, only to find that there is no connection. We desperately justify in our minds why we are still attached to a man that isn't right for you, me or us. We provide excuses and ignore truths. We make believe and wish it were true. We find ourselves hoping against hope for someone who just isn't right for us. We cry and hurt because we refused to accept the truth. We tell ourselves that it is going to get better only to be faced with yet again - He is not the one. We dread closing the door, but eventually we will muster enough courage to bow out - to leave and let go.