We all are full aware of what we want in a mate. And if you don't know, you should write down your wants. For real. You should write down the age range; the educational requirments; the parenthood status; the socio-economic level; the intellectual level; the common straits; the physical straits; your faith preference; their ability to socialize in various circles and other wants and desires that you deem important.
Now why should we do this? Well for starters, too many times we engage ourselves in relationships (over and over again) that do not meet or fit our hierarchy of needs. Sure from the beginning it was great, but it suppose to be 'cause it is all new and fresh. But as you progress forward, the real relationship will begin to suffer or succumb to the real issues of life, but what was the resolve? Did you work it out? Or did you just cave in and accepeted what the verdict was? Because we don't want to be alone we will continue to remain in a relationship that isn't meant for us.
Babygirl or babyboy, if you are in a relationship and it's not working - you have got to move on. If you are in a relationship and your needs are not being met, it is time to move on. Let's just call it like we see it. That's why it is important to write down what you desire or your needs. Don't continue to waste your precious time in a relationship that is going nowhere, vertically or horizontally. Baby girl or baby boy - Move on.
Sunday, August 26, 2007
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