What's In It For Me?

OK - so you been around awhile. You and he have spent countless hours together. You talk on the phone several times a day. You've met his folks and some of his friends. He has meet your family and your close friends. But for some reason, something is missing or should I say - Not Happening! What's in it for me? You've asked yourself many times over. Is it that he is not your type and just a fill in? Is it that he doesn't push all of your buttons? Or could it be that you are not ready for the steady? Is it that you are looking for something else or you're not looking at all? Whatever it is be darn sure you know before you go. You don't want to make the move too quickly and later realize that HE WAS FOR YOU.